Chastity is an invaluable tool when it comes to keeping a sub humble and focused; Contrary to what some may think, long distance absolutely does not have to interfere in such important training. Ladies, we don't need two keys to keep a boy off his dick and on good behavior--arrange for him to mail one to You and retain the other, for emergencies, without apprehension! We don't NEED expensive male management systems like Dreamlover Labs (although Dreamlover is pretty awesome http://www.dreamloverlabs.com/ ) to keep him out of his pants and in line. A bit of strict ingenuity, coupled with the products/procedures below, can accomplish all You hope in the chastity arena.
1. The kSafe was developed based on behavioral research studies at MIT, Harvard, Stanford, Princeton, and Yale; according to scientists there, "pre-commitment can significantly increase our chances of achieving our goals."
According to Me, when I order a boy to lock his chastity key(s) (for up to ten days at a time) in this hard-to-destruct, timed vault which is NOT equipped an override feature, I'm doing him a huge favor; Remove the ability to use the keys, and with it goes some of the temptation to try...for the most part. Yes, if a boy wants to smash the kSafe with a hammer because he just can't wait to touch himself, it IS possible, but then he's a proven pathetic weakling, has just wasted a chunk of hard-earned change, and can probably look forward to some serious punishment in the near future.
The kSafe can be purchased (almost) worldwide here http://www.thekitchensafe.com/ for $49 (shipped free in the USA)
2. Numbered locks are a wonderful security system; simply note the number on the lock upon ordering your boy into chastity and demand number-comparison tag checks as you please. Numbers don't lie, but boys will try--these plastic babysitters rule out sketchy behavior like secret key use or past-proof-picture sending. As an added bonus, plastic locks won't set off airport metal detectors, so if you're a meanie who gets a kick out of assigning travel with possible TSA embarrassment like I am, these dull a boy's anxiety regarding that just a little.
You can order these here http://www.cb-6000.net/ as well as through other online sites, including Amazon.
3. Freezing chastity keys in ice is not infallible when it comes to keeping a boy away from those keys, but it does hinder the instant (stupid) gratification of getting to them immediately. You can factor different variables into key freezing to make the process more fun or difficult to bypass. For instance:
*Fill 2+ identical opaque vessels with water, drop the key(s) into 1 of them, and freeze. Should you want to play chastity games with your boy later, you can make him mix the vessels up and choose the one he thinks the key is in--if he's correct, he gets a free night, if he's wrong, a week is added to his lockdown.
*Freeze keys in an object other than a bottle of water. I've made My slave remove a sock, place his key in it, soak the sock thoroughly, and freeze it; it was a REAL hilarious pain in the ass to first, remove the frozen sock from the bottom of the freezer, then remove the key from that stiff sock.
*Place the key in a popsicle mold, instruct your boy to pee into that popsicle mold, and freeze. He wants the key? He eats the peesicle to get to it!
Use your imagination, the sky is the limit! And remember, the bigger the vessel a key is frozen into, the longer it takes to thaw!
4. Supervised showering. Don't get it twisted, your "good boy" will try to quickly fire one off in the shower under the guise of health and hygiene, if given the opportunity. We, as responsible Dommes, must ensure the safety of Our boys--and no one wants a filthy, infected pig who reeks of rotten dickcheese--so yes, let them get in that shower unlocked as needed...but watch. EVERY TIME. Make them open Skype and execute all their maintenance while free under Your watch. No room to fuck up means no fuck ups!
Stringent, random chastity checks and balances, combined with a little creativity, and INTENSE punishment for failure, will keep your property safe, secure, and well behaved across any border...
...or you could just flush that fucking key down the toilet and forget about it ;)
